How To Achieve A Happy Home

*FOOD FOR THOUGHT - *THE COST OF A HAPPY HOME.*

Whenever you see a happy couple, you need not to envy them or assume they are very lucky to find each other.
*There is no manufactured happy home anywhere* - if you see any happy home, then be sure *they were delibrately, diligently and passionately made!*

*Being a good person or being religious doesn't make a happy home, neither does riches, certificates, position nor wealth.*

*Marrying the most beautiful woman or the most handsome man* doesn't guarantee happiness in marriage either.

*Many believers even think marrying another good believer is a sure way to having a happy home, but many have been greatly disappointed!*

 *What then makes up a happy home? *A happy home is a function of mutual fulfilment derived from mutual selfless with intentional commitment to the marital union, in accordance to the BIBLICAL GUIDE LINES AND PRINCIPLES ALWAYS!*

*Having a happy home can only be achieved by deliberate efforts and determination of both parties*.
No matter how much a partner desires a happy home, *it can only happen, if the other partner wants and agrees to deliberately build a happy home.*

*Therefore to achieve a happy home, both parties must be actively involved always!*

*They must first delibrately offer themselves as a living sacrifice on the altar of their marriage.* They must be *ready to deny themselves and be willing to accept their cross daily*.

 *In a happy home, ego and self are totally buried in the grave of marital bliss.* Partners in a happy home *dson't think too much about themselves but the happiness of their spouse always.*

 *The journey to a happy home can be initiated by the man or the woman.*
*This journey starts with contentment and diligence with wholehearted determination of the initiator always.*

Then it continues in *daily forgiveness and mutual tolerance.*
*No couple is happy, when they continue to look at each other's weaknesses or offences.*

 They can only be happy, if *they choose to deliberately accept each other's shortcomings with offenses and take their pains with hurts to the Almighty God* instead of romancing with them.

*Happy couples don't win arguments,* rather *they communicate with sincere and wholehearted love to achieve a better with ideal union daily.*.

 *Happy couples don't compare their marriage with others*
*They are happy and contented with what they have gratefully and joyfully always!*
**Happy homes are not meant for the selfish and inconsiderate partners*

Happiness is a choice but the price is not cheap. *Only the humble and the broken can intentionally buy it.*

*The manual for a true happy home is not designed by the society or social media.*
*They are designed by GOD alone and given to every interested couple through the BIBLE.*

*The ideal home mustn't follow the acceptable trends in the society rather they must deliberately practice what makes the parties joyful and fulfilled, in all arras daily.*

**You can initiate the journey to a happy home today* no matter how far you have traveled in the path of bitterness, hatred and unforgiveness that yeild sorrow in your family!*
Remember, an *unhappy home is the junior sibling to hell fire on earth.*

However, a *happy home is a reflection of heavenly bliss!*
It is a matter of choice and you can *deliberately make a wise choice today, which you will never regret!* The choice is
 yours today, because It is not too late yet.

*Give Peace a chance in your marriage today.*
*Determine to make your family members have a taste of HEAVEN ON EARTH DAILY!*

It is very much possible, *if you are willing and ready to deliberately pay THE FULL PRICE prayerfully daily!*

Best wishes from Brother and Sister Ololaju